Well that was a slightly unintentional blog holiday, though those who have seen my last post can probably work out why!

Fortunately, Tom is now recovered from the conjunctivitis, oral thrush, a bout of croup and getting his lower canines through. And my stomach has settled down after two separate incidences of food poisoning (I’d like to point out that neither of these was caused by food I had cooked…). So normal service should now resume, assuming we have no further random illnesses in the near future.

Despite the various small disasters of the last few weeks, we have still been enjoying some outdoor play. Luckily, Easter fell in a rare patch where neither Tom nor I was actively ill, so we were able to enjoy a lovely weekend in the country with my family. My dad is currently living in Singapore for work and my sister’s boyfriend lives in Abu Dhabi, so it is a rare and wonderful occasion when all of us are able to be together in the same room. Sadly, Mr Techno did have to work most of the weekend, but managed to sneak down on Saturday to spend the day with us all (or, rather, to watch the rugby whilst eating his own body weight in hot cross buns).

The weather was less than fantastic, apart from Good Friday which was gloriously sunny. Tom happily splashed water in the garden and ‘helped’ his grandfather install a new watering system for the potted plants (I suggested a watering can, but apparently this is too lo-tech). Then we went to the park where Tom and my dad had some good bonding time. They see each other so rarely, but they really get on well. My dad is a bit British when it comes to emotions, but lets his guard down much more with Tom. Let’s hope that bond will last!


Despite the wet weather the rest of the weekend, we managed to visit another park on Saturday and Tom and my mum went for a ‘nature walk’ around the garden on Sunday. They found some frog spawn and Tom chased the chickens. Or they chased him. Hard to tell really.

We’ve also been enjoying getting out on the Marshes now that the weather is warmer and it has been wonderful to be able to hang the washing outside – with the result that the laundry basket is actually empty for the first time in about…19 months?


One Hellish Week

Urgh. Things have not been happy in the Wildling household just lately. Tom came down with oral thrush, which we can only assume was the result of him having been on antibiotic eyedrops for his conjunctivitis. He also picked up a cold from nursery, and, just to cap it all off, his lower canines are coming through.

Needless to say, we have had an extremely upset baby. He went from sleepy and clingy on Saturday, to screaming in pain at every mealtime on Sunday. By Monday last week, he was refusing to eat at all. Thankfully he would accept milk.

We’ve been treating him with antifungal gel four times a day, which has almost cleaned up the thrush. After three days of not eating, he began cautiously accepting weetabix (with added probiotic) on Thursday and is now basically back to normal with food.

Mr Techno and I are lucky to have been able to switch out most of the week, so neither one of us has had to take the full burden of caring for our sick little one. But it’s not been easy for any of us and I’m very glad that the end is in sight.

Unsurprisingly, all of this means we’ve not been getting out much! Apart from to the doctors of course. The new, though still unfinished, mud kitchen has been a bit of a saviour as a distraction when we have gotten out into the garden. But the lack of outdoor time was not helping my patience.

In fact…I did have a bit of a meltdown on Saturday morning. Tom was refusing to nap. I’ve not been feeling well either, and all I wanted was a hot bath. And Mr Techno had to go to work. So I was pissed off. And feeling like an awful mother for not putting my wants to one side to be there for my sick baby. All of which I kind of shouted at Mr Techno. Except with a lot more swear words (Tom wasn’t in the room at the time). Seriously, the man has the patience of a saint sometimes.

Anyway. It was fine once I had the rant out of my system. I got my bath, although it had to involve a lot of Tom ‘help’…so I was joined by lots of toys and had to avoid getting my hair washed. Then we went to meet friends at Victoria Park. We had lunch, which Tom ate (it was mine, but hey, he was eating) and a long walk. And suddenly everything was manageable again.

Thank goodness for the healing power of the great outdoors!


A Week of Excess


Mr Techno takes birthdays seriously. He has no fear of getting older and really likes to wring every last drop of enjoyment out of it. Since his birthday was last Wednesday, he took the entire week off work, which resulted in rather too much celebrating!


We kicked off on Tuesday, with takeout and a bottle of wine (I know right? We really know how to live it up!) Wednesday night, his brother babysat so we could go out for dinner. Then we relocated to Waterloo for the weekend, leaving Tom with Mr Techno’s sister so we could go out with friends. Saturday night was a drunken dinner party in Waterloo, complete with drinking jenga.

The result of all this was a massive overconsumption of both food and alcohol, leaving me feeling rather sluggish. Definitely time for a bit of a detox this week!

We did at least head out on Saturday for a walk…which somehow turned into a visit to the Imperial War Museum. With two toddlers.


I’ve actually not been before and could have done with my first visit being alone, so I could absorb. It’s not exactly a light Saturday afternoon outing! It’s also extremely un-buggy friendly. We had Tom in the sling/walking, but my neice is still a crawler so we had to check their buggy into the buggy park, due to the many stairs, and carry her.


Still, at least it got us out of the house!

Helpful Hands

Ever since Tom was born, Mr Techno and I have joked that he suffers from helpful hands. As a teeny tiny baby, he used to use them to try to help me latch him on…more often than not resulting in him detaching himself altogether. He’s equally helpful when it comes to cooking, DIY, and brushing his teeth.

But something bizarre has happened in the last few weeks. Tom has become…genuinely helpful.

He helps me clean up his room, putting everything back in the (correct) container before bathtime. He wipes up spills if I hand him a cloth, and even helps with the hoovering


Sadly, I’m pretty sure this is a phase all toddlers go through and it doesn’t mean he will be amenable to helping with housework as a teenager. But hey, it’s good while it lasts!

Sadly, the washing up is still an area where more mess gets created than clean plates...

Lazy Days


It’s been a quiet weekend for Tom and I. We have both come down with a cold and Mr Techno is busy with the opening of the new restaurant, so there wasn’t much impetus to make plans.

We started Saturday morning with an indulgent breakfast of pain au chocolat, to celebrate the restaurant’s opening. I knew we weren’t likely to see Mr Techno for any longer than half-an-hour for the next few days – he’s been leaving the house at 7.30 and getting back after midnight for the past week, trying to get everything ready in time – so breakfast was about the only celebratory time we were going to get. Tom has never had pain au chocolat before but very much approved. Apparently it was a great improvement over his normal breakfast of weetabix or toast. He got chocolate everywhere.

We spent the morning playing at home, before Tom went down for his nap at 9.30. No idea why he’s decided to drop the afternoon nap instead of the morning one, but actually it works pretty well. We had lunch when he woke up and then headed out for a rather wet walk. We left the flat in a light drizzle, but by the time we were out on the Marshes it was chucking it down.We had a good time anyway – we were both snuggled up in our waterproofs and Tom was very excited to see the trains going by. There was a brief argument when we were walking along the road back to the park – Tom wasn’t especially keen to stick to the pavement. He’s getting faster and is less phased by the step down from the kerb, so we’ve been getting stricter on making him hold our hands whenever we walk near a road, even if it is just the quiet one to the park. He’s been ok about it mostly but is not thrilled by not being able to go wherever he wants. This particular disagreement ended with him going back in the sling. Which he was actually fine with – I think he tends to play up more when he is getting tired of walking.

By this point, I was pretty sick of the rain, so we headed home (after a quick trip to the shops). We spent the rest of the afternoon playing a new game that Tom has invented – he pretends to push me over, I fall very slowly to the ground, and Tom climbs on top of me, giggling. It was fun. For the first five times. The next 20 were a little less fun…

By the end of Saturday I was feeling pretty rough, so it was lucky that Tom decided to have a rare lie-in on Sunday morning. We are usually up at 6.30, but this time he slept almost until 8.00! I guess he was in need of the sleep too. We were both much happier for the extra rest, but the weather was less cheery – grey, drizzly and windy. Having gotten a bit drenched the day before, I decided that, for once, we really didn’t need to head out just to prove a point. So we stayed home. I did some cooking and household chores, whilst Tom climbed up and down the sofa, emptied out every shelf and container he could find, and spent ages moving all the pasta from the packet into a mixing bowl. And then stirring it. And then putting it all back in the pack again. Rinse and repeat. Ending with the pasta in the bowl sadly, rather than the packet. I actually managed to read an entire book whilst he did this (it wasn’t very long).

I can’t do it too often, but a lazy weekend was exactly what we needed. And hopefully it will have helped me fight off the cold enough to manage the week at work – the first two courses of the year are being held this week, so my job-share and I are going to be busy!